Any day that we wake up is a good day!! Let us get over the "whoa is
me" attitude. Come on girls, we can do it. Wherever we are, there is
Sonshine. We bring with us the joy that God has gifted us with. We
brighten the dreary days of those who are dealing with trauma we
cannot comprehend?
Is there someone you know who has suffered a loss of some kind? Many
have lost their jobs and with it the plan for the future. They need to
know that someone cares and is willing to be there for them. Do you
know someone who has given a loved one to serve as a police officer
or military personnel? They need to be encouraged that we appreciate
the sacrifice.
We all have so much to be thankful for. The days of building our own
mansions on earth are gone. We need to think about the blessings that
don't cost money...like family, friends, health, a place to live and food
on our table. God is sooo good. We need to thank Him constantly and
joyfully.
Oh Happy Day!! Whatever happens today, He is in charge and so I am
fine with it. He knows what is best for me all of the time. He loves me
through all of the funky stuff that life is all about. I will praise the
Lord and I hope that our chorus of praise is constant music to His
ears.
Monday, September 12, 2011
Friday, September 2, 2011
No Pain No Gain
NO PAIN NO GAIN IS TRUE IN A SPIRITUAL AS WELL AS PHYSICAL
SENSE.
Every woman has been through or will go through pain that she cannot
explain to anyone. The situation is usually impossible. Because God
made us helpers to everyone in our family and friends, we hurt for
many reasons.
People who work out understand the balance of pain needed to see a
physical difference in the body. Pushing beyond the pain is a part of
a regular work out. Then there is the two days after a hard work out.
Places in the body are screaming for attention.
When we are in emotional pain, it is a spiritual work out. We need to
seek balance. God is there and is ready to ease the pain. He does not
expect us to do it on our own. There is no way to get over pain unless
we give it away to Him. He offers to carry the burdens but we have to
give them up.
What can we do? We cannot change people or most circumstances.
God can do the impossible and He does this all of the time. We need
to notice all of the every day miracles that are happening around us.
Yes, we can ask Him to heal the pain someone is experiencing but the
timing of His answer is up to God. We may never understand why
things happen in the lives of our loved ones. God has a purpose and
we trust Him.
The community of women in this world experiences hardship every
day. Age has nothing to do with it. Young girls can already be caught
up in the hardships of life. What can a woman of God offer?
God is always with His children. He never leaves us. He loves us with
and everlasting love. He meets the moment by moment needs.
If you are going "through" right now remember that He chooses the
strong to endure to the end. Everyone cannot be trusted to continue
living their faith in really hard times. People are watching and
listening to find out if God is real in the hardships of life. You are
making a difference in someone's life today.
SENSE.
Every woman has been through or will go through pain that she cannot
explain to anyone. The situation is usually impossible. Because God
made us helpers to everyone in our family and friends, we hurt for
many reasons.
People who work out understand the balance of pain needed to see a
physical difference in the body. Pushing beyond the pain is a part of
a regular work out. Then there is the two days after a hard work out.
Places in the body are screaming for attention.
When we are in emotional pain, it is a spiritual work out. We need to
seek balance. God is there and is ready to ease the pain. He does not
expect us to do it on our own. There is no way to get over pain unless
we give it away to Him. He offers to carry the burdens but we have to
give them up.
What can we do? We cannot change people or most circumstances.
God can do the impossible and He does this all of the time. We need
to notice all of the every day miracles that are happening around us.
Yes, we can ask Him to heal the pain someone is experiencing but the
timing of His answer is up to God. We may never understand why
things happen in the lives of our loved ones. God has a purpose and
we trust Him.
The community of women in this world experiences hardship every
day. Age has nothing to do with it. Young girls can already be caught
up in the hardships of life. What can a woman of God offer?
God is always with His children. He never leaves us. He loves us with
and everlasting love. He meets the moment by moment needs.
If you are going "through" right now remember that He chooses the
strong to endure to the end. Everyone cannot be trusted to continue
living their faith in really hard times. People are watching and
listening to find out if God is real in the hardships of life. You are
making a difference in someone's life today.
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
Summer is over
Wow! What a summer! I don't know about you but mine was very
full. Many experiences were uplifting, enjoyable, relaxing and
memory making for the family. Some of life's moments draw us closer
to God and make us realize that He is our only Rock. He is always
there and always good to His children.
I did lots of traveling which is a part of summer vacation. Now that
I am retired, I don't need summer to take a vacation anymore.
Getting older is good in so many ways. I visited family in the
muggy midwest. I journeyed to the northwest at the most beautiful
time of their year. We went to Victoria for the first time and
thoroughly enjoyed time with family there. We spent quality time
in Arizona with family and friends. I am writing from San Diego
where we have family.
No matter what happens, we are here to be with people. Sometimes
people need us for encouragement, help, understanding or just back
up. At other times we need people to remind us of why we are here.
God can do everything Himself but He chooses to allow us to do
His work while we are here. How amazing is that!! I cannot get
my mind around how low God has to go to help us to understand
anything about His greatness.
Lately I am having more focused time with Him. It is so wonderful
to be surrounded by Him through His word and prayer. I hope this
was a good summer for all of you. Now let's get back on schedule and
make some plans to be with people who need us and still want us.
full. Many experiences were uplifting, enjoyable, relaxing and
memory making for the family. Some of life's moments draw us closer
to God and make us realize that He is our only Rock. He is always
there and always good to His children.
I did lots of traveling which is a part of summer vacation. Now that
I am retired, I don't need summer to take a vacation anymore.
Getting older is good in so many ways. I visited family in the
muggy midwest. I journeyed to the northwest at the most beautiful
time of their year. We went to Victoria for the first time and
thoroughly enjoyed time with family there. We spent quality time
in Arizona with family and friends. I am writing from San Diego
where we have family.
No matter what happens, we are here to be with people. Sometimes
people need us for encouragement, help, understanding or just back
up. At other times we need people to remind us of why we are here.
God can do everything Himself but He chooses to allow us to do
His work while we are here. How amazing is that!! I cannot get
my mind around how low God has to go to help us to understand
anything about His greatness.
Lately I am having more focused time with Him. It is so wonderful
to be surrounded by Him through His word and prayer. I hope this
was a good summer for all of you. Now let's get back on schedule and
make some plans to be with people who need us and still want us.
Monday, July 18, 2011
AGING GRATEFULLY
It has been a very busy summer for me. I have made lots of memories
with my family. I love pictures and albums to remind me of how my
time was spent. I do not take TIME for granted. I have surpassed the
spring and summer of my life and now I am plunging into the autumn. Contemplating life is a part of what makes aging an exciting journey.
Finally there is time to think about everything and come to a decision concerning how to live.
We all have friends and acquaintances. We give time to people who
are important to us. I love people and enjoy observing the way in
which people interact with daily life. I believe that my joy comes from
an attitude of aging gratefully.
I have heard women speaking about women who have aged gracefully. This
with my family. I love pictures and albums to remind me of how my
time was spent. I do not take TIME for granted. I have surpassed the
spring and summer of my life and now I am plunging into the autumn. Contemplating life is a part of what makes aging an exciting journey.
Finally there is time to think about everything and come to a decision concerning how to live.
We all have friends and acquaintances. We give time to people who
are important to us. I love people and enjoy observing the way in
which people interact with daily life. I believe that my joy comes from
an attitude of aging gratefully.
I have heard women speaking about women who have aged gracefully. This
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
JOY
I CHOOSE JOY BECAUSE IT IS A CHOICE.
Women have a hard time with so many things. Women are the
fixers of life. Our children require help and fixing on a regular basis
I won't even discuss our husbands. Have I mentioned our extended
family and friends? There is so much worrying to be done and
someone has to do it!! Wrong.
If you are a follower of Jesus Christ, He already has all of the answers
to all of our "problems". This includes me, my children, my grand
children, my girlfriends, my relatives and those who are casual
acquaintances. I know it sounds easy. Why do we want difficult?
When the Bible talks about His burden being easy and His load being
light, it is true. We burden ourselves, God is not responsible.
If you begin a habit of God truly being in charge of every moment
of your life, then life is a piece of cake. For those of us ladies
experiencing the downward trend of aging, our lines point up not
down. My grandaughter informed me that I am not old. okay. She
says when people get old they are grumpy and look mean. I told her
that I never want to be like that. She says that as long as I keep
wearing sparkly jewelry, I will never be grumpy faced. That works
for me.
You are thinking that I must live in a perfect world. Everything
in my life is easy. NOOOO! The key is that I am not running my life
so there are no complaints. Each day has so many blessings that I
sometimes cannot believe how good God is. Focusing on what we
have is so much better than complaining about what we think we
need.
Recently my husband and I were having a conversation about
money. Now you are perked up!! I told him that I am thankful that
we do not have a big bank account or 401K. I told him that if we did,
I would not get excited about the early dinner at Texas Roadhouse.
It would not thrill me to get a pedicure every now and then. The
flowers he brings me from the grocery store would not be good enough
if I had lots of money. It just takes the fun out of life. I don't have to
worry about keeping what I don't have.
I am thankful and happy. I love to smile and wear bright clothes.
I love to look people in the eye and welcome them into my world.
He does it for me and He can do it for anyone who will give Him control.
Try it. You may like it.
Women have a hard time with so many things. Women are the
fixers of life. Our children require help and fixing on a regular basis
I won't even discuss our husbands. Have I mentioned our extended
family and friends? There is so much worrying to be done and
someone has to do it!! Wrong.
If you are a follower of Jesus Christ, He already has all of the answers
to all of our "problems". This includes me, my children, my grand
children, my girlfriends, my relatives and those who are casual
acquaintances. I know it sounds easy. Why do we want difficult?
When the Bible talks about His burden being easy and His load being
light, it is true. We burden ourselves, God is not responsible.
If you begin a habit of God truly being in charge of every moment
of your life, then life is a piece of cake. For those of us ladies
experiencing the downward trend of aging, our lines point up not
down. My grandaughter informed me that I am not old. okay. She
says when people get old they are grumpy and look mean. I told her
that I never want to be like that. She says that as long as I keep
wearing sparkly jewelry, I will never be grumpy faced. That works
for me.
You are thinking that I must live in a perfect world. Everything
in my life is easy. NOOOO! The key is that I am not running my life
so there are no complaints. Each day has so many blessings that I
sometimes cannot believe how good God is. Focusing on what we
have is so much better than complaining about what we think we
need.
Recently my husband and I were having a conversation about
money. Now you are perked up!! I told him that I am thankful that
we do not have a big bank account or 401K. I told him that if we did,
I would not get excited about the early dinner at Texas Roadhouse.
It would not thrill me to get a pedicure every now and then. The
flowers he brings me from the grocery store would not be good enough
if I had lots of money. It just takes the fun out of life. I don't have to
worry about keeping what I don't have.
I am thankful and happy. I love to smile and wear bright clothes.
I love to look people in the eye and welcome them into my world.
He does it for me and He can do it for anyone who will give Him control.
Try it. You may like it.
Friday, May 20, 2011
GIRLFRIENDS
It has been awhile since I have written. A few friends have commented
on this blog and I am ready to share once again.
GIRLFRIENDS come in all shapes, sizes, ages, ethnicities and
personalities. They are a blessing of God on our lives. Most of our
memories are linked to special people who are a part of an event.
It can be as simple as a shared lunch with lots of laughing!! My favorite expression between friends is a hug. So simple and so energizing and refreshing...ahhh.
One day I called my granddaughter, girlfriend. She was shocked. " I
don't like that Nana. You are not a boy and I don't want a boyfriend
either." I did some explaining and now she does not mind at all. It is
fun talking with her. She has quite a personality. Oh yes, she will
always be a loved girlfriend.
I have some young women who are dear girlfriends. They love to be
real and talk about what God is doing in their lives and their families.
It is so encouraging to know that God is working to bring these cute
young moms to a maturity in Christ that is amazing. Whenever I spend
time with them, I leave with a big smile on my face and in my heart.
My sisters are my girlfriends. They know me from the beginning and
they still talk to me!! God has allowed my older sister to live near me
for quite a few years now. We are so real with each other that most
women could not handle it. She loves me and prays for me as I do her.
We have lots of fun together and lots of spiritual talks. We lift up the
name of the Lord in our conversations.
I have a fun girlfriend my age. This relationship is wonderful because
we are both dealing with aging, grandparenting, forgetting things, etc.
We do so much laughing. We are both blingy ladies. Oh yes, you will
see us coming. When we are together, we do not feel our age. Remember
what it was like to have a girlfriend in high school? That is the feeling
with my fun friend.
I have 3 daughters and one daughter by marriage to my son. These
girls are all delightful. I enjoy our times together whether or not we
are shopping. They each bring something special as my girlfriends.
It is wonderful to be their friend and not just mom. What a joy they are
to me.
Lately, God is showing me that I need to be thankful for all of the
friends that He has provided. It is not something to be taken for
granted. They may not always be here. I may not always be here.
Thank you to all of the women and girls that God is using in my life.
on this blog and I am ready to share once again.
GIRLFRIENDS come in all shapes, sizes, ages, ethnicities and
personalities. They are a blessing of God on our lives. Most of our
memories are linked to special people who are a part of an event.
It can be as simple as a shared lunch with lots of laughing!! My favorite expression between friends is a hug. So simple and so energizing and refreshing...ahhh.
One day I called my granddaughter, girlfriend. She was shocked. " I
don't like that Nana. You are not a boy and I don't want a boyfriend
either." I did some explaining and now she does not mind at all. It is
fun talking with her. She has quite a personality. Oh yes, she will
always be a loved girlfriend.
I have some young women who are dear girlfriends. They love to be
real and talk about what God is doing in their lives and their families.
It is so encouraging to know that God is working to bring these cute
young moms to a maturity in Christ that is amazing. Whenever I spend
time with them, I leave with a big smile on my face and in my heart.
My sisters are my girlfriends. They know me from the beginning and
they still talk to me!! God has allowed my older sister to live near me
for quite a few years now. We are so real with each other that most
women could not handle it. She loves me and prays for me as I do her.
We have lots of fun together and lots of spiritual talks. We lift up the
name of the Lord in our conversations.
I have a fun girlfriend my age. This relationship is wonderful because
we are both dealing with aging, grandparenting, forgetting things, etc.
We do so much laughing. We are both blingy ladies. Oh yes, you will
see us coming. When we are together, we do not feel our age. Remember
what it was like to have a girlfriend in high school? That is the feeling
with my fun friend.
I have 3 daughters and one daughter by marriage to my son. These
girls are all delightful. I enjoy our times together whether or not we
are shopping. They each bring something special as my girlfriends.
It is wonderful to be their friend and not just mom. What a joy they are
to me.
Lately, God is showing me that I need to be thankful for all of the
friends that He has provided. It is not something to be taken for
granted. They may not always be here. I may not always be here.
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
Showers of Blessing
It has been a while since I have written. Life has been very busy and
most women know what I am talking about. There is little time to
ponder the moments of a day.
Wherever we find ourselves in life, we are busy. If we are young, we
are busy with schooling and marriage. In mid life, we are busy raising
children and making a good home for our family. In later life, we are
busy being grandparents and coming alongside our children to encourage them.
In each of these seasons of life, we are also a silent mentor to someone.
There are always people observing our lives. There are women that
watch us and listen to us while we are doing one day at a time. They
see something in us that they would like to add to their life. Perhaps
it is kindness, gentleness, encouragement, etc. We do not think about
this enough. We all have gifts to share with other women that can help
them to do life in a better fashion.
When we focus on this, we begin to see how God uses willing people to
bless others. I have been blessed by kind words that have been spoken
to me or sent in a card exactly when I needed it. God has given me opportunities to be the best part of someone's day. We need to leave a
place better than we find it. We need to be women who are a blessing to
other women not a curse.
Many times I will think about how God has blessed my life. It is over
whelming to realize that God cares that much for me...and you. God
has done things that I would have never asked him to do. He has given
gifts that have thrilled my heart and He was the only One who knew
what I needed. He cares that much for each one of us.
I have been given the opportunity to spend time with my children and
grandchildren. What a thrill to see what He is doing in their lives.
He allows me to be a part of what He is doing. I can share His love
with family in word and most importantly in deed. I love the way God orchestrates each day. He knows what is best not just good enough.
May His shower of blessings cover you and amaze you. He is so good.
most women know what I am talking about. There is little time to
ponder the moments of a day.
Wherever we find ourselves in life, we are busy. If we are young, we
are busy with schooling and marriage. In mid life, we are busy raising
children and making a good home for our family. In later life, we are
busy being grandparents and coming alongside our children to encourage them.
In each of these seasons of life, we are also a silent mentor to someone.
There are always people observing our lives. There are women that
watch us and listen to us while we are doing one day at a time. They
see something in us that they would like to add to their life. Perhaps
it is kindness, gentleness, encouragement, etc. We do not think about
this enough. We all have gifts to share with other women that can help
them to do life in a better fashion.
When we focus on this, we begin to see how God uses willing people to
bless others. I have been blessed by kind words that have been spoken
to me or sent in a card exactly when I needed it. God has given me opportunities to be the best part of someone's day. We need to leave a
place better than we find it. We need to be women who are a blessing to
other women not a curse.
Many times I will think about how God has blessed my life. It is over
whelming to realize that God cares that much for me...and you. God
has done things that I would have never asked him to do. He has given
gifts that have thrilled my heart and He was the only One who knew
what I needed. He cares that much for each one of us.
I have been given the opportunity to spend time with my children and
grandchildren. What a thrill to see what He is doing in their lives.
He allows me to be a part of what He is doing. I can share His love
with family in word and most importantly in deed. I love the way God orchestrates each day. He knows what is best not just good enough.
May His shower of blessings cover you and amaze you. He is so good.
Thursday, March 24, 2011
GOD IS IN CHARGE
I believe that God is in charge of all things. I know that this is difficult for people to handle when bad things happen. It is not up to us to question what
God is doing. Our responsibility is to pray for people and be available for Him
to use in people's lives. God is our model for really loving people. We cannot
love without His love flowing through us.
Recently, I have been reminded that my days are ordered by the Lord.
God is doing. Our responsibility is to pray for people and be available for Him
to use in people's lives. God is our model for really loving people. We cannot
love without His love flowing through us.
Recently, I have been reminded that my days are ordered by the Lord.
Sunday, March 13, 2011
BLAH, BLAH, BLAH
Recently I have been reminded about the way people treat one another.
As a child I remember being told that if I had nothing nice to say, don't
say anything. I think we need to review this thought. "Be ye kind to
one another..."
Women have such a problem with never being good enough. Where do
those thoughts come from? I think it is one way for the devil to get us
down. We never focus on our strengths but rather pinpoint our short
comings.
It is amazing how many women deal with "friends" who can only find
fault in them. "You are not good enough so I will help you with my
accusations about who you really are." I am sure that if we look at the
word "friend" it has nothing to with downtrodden, negative people in
our life. Have you ever thought about the person giving you advice?
How does their life hold up to scrutiny? Do you want to model your
life after their life?
Because I have lived a long time, I know that people who criticize are
motivated by elevating themselves. You drink too much coffee means
that she is better than you because she drinks 3 cokes a day! It is funny
when you think about it. Why is it that people cannot see their own
flaws but can easily spotlight someone else's?
My title explains my view of the critique that people give. The only One
who can change anyone is God. So, if your "friend" really cares for you
she can spend more time in prayer and less time telling you what to do.
God has a time frame for change and it is individual. He only expects
to deal with one thing at a time. He will never give you more than you
can handle. Everything He does comes from Love.
What can you do? Let go of those people who are weighing you
down. Surround yourself with people who realize that we all have our
strong points and our weak points. Women need friends who pray for
them not people who try to fix them.
As a child I remember being told that if I had nothing nice to say, don't
say anything. I think we need to review this thought. "Be ye kind to
one another..."
Women have such a problem with never being good enough. Where do
those thoughts come from? I think it is one way for the devil to get us
down. We never focus on our strengths but rather pinpoint our short
comings.
It is amazing how many women deal with "friends" who can only find
fault in them. "You are not good enough so I will help you with my
accusations about who you really are." I am sure that if we look at the
word "friend" it has nothing to with downtrodden, negative people in
our life. Have you ever thought about the person giving you advice?
How does their life hold up to scrutiny? Do you want to model your
life after their life?
Because I have lived a long time, I know that people who criticize are
motivated by elevating themselves. You drink too much coffee means
that she is better than you because she drinks 3 cokes a day! It is funny
when you think about it. Why is it that people cannot see their own
flaws but can easily spotlight someone else's?
My title explains my view of the critique that people give. The only One
who can change anyone is God. So, if your "friend" really cares for you
she can spend more time in prayer and less time telling you what to do.
God has a time frame for change and it is individual. He only expects
to deal with one thing at a time. He will never give you more than you
can handle. Everything He does comes from Love.
What can you do? Let go of those people who are weighing you
down. Surround yourself with people who realize that we all have our
strong points and our weak points. Women need friends who pray for
them not people who try to fix them.
Love you girlfriends.
Friday, March 11, 2011
A Few Things I have learned along the way
You are always a mom no matter how old your children are!
Today my son is coming for the weekend. I was thinking about how
long it has been since we have had time along to talk. I know that some
sons do not like to talk but mine does! We will just keep talking until
we sleep. Ofcourse eating is also a big part of a man's life. I have a
special restaurant picked out for one night.
My son is married to a wonderful girl and they have an adorable daughter,
Emma. They live in Portland. He will enjoy our great Arizona weather.
I know he will enjoy relaxing with no agenda. That is what mom's home
is like. Just breathe and relax. My husband is on a trip so I have Tim
all to myself until Sunday.
Yesterday, Emma called to ask if we could Skype. My answer is always
YES. What fun that is. I think that Skype is a blessing from God. Now
I don't have to miss seeing the kids grow. Emma loves ballet and I love
seeing her show me a move and her tutu. I visit Portland in October and
we do all sorts of Fall Festivities. I brought a sparkly pumpkin t-shirt and
ruffly little skirt for Emma to wear. She loves dress up.
You can tell that I am excited. I will let you know how wonderful it is.
Family is so important. Love one another.
Today my son is coming for the weekend. I was thinking about how
long it has been since we have had time along to talk. I know that some
sons do not like to talk but mine does! We will just keep talking until
we sleep. Ofcourse eating is also a big part of a man's life. I have a
special restaurant picked out for one night.
My son is married to a wonderful girl and they have an adorable daughter,
Emma. They live in Portland. He will enjoy our great Arizona weather.
I know he will enjoy relaxing with no agenda. That is what mom's home
is like. Just breathe and relax. My husband is on a trip so I have Tim
all to myself until Sunday.
Yesterday, Emma called to ask if we could Skype. My answer is always
YES. What fun that is. I think that Skype is a blessing from God. Now
I don't have to miss seeing the kids grow. Emma loves ballet and I love
seeing her show me a move and her tutu. I visit Portland in October and
we do all sorts of Fall Festivities. I brought a sparkly pumpkin t-shirt and
ruffly little skirt for Emma to wear. She loves dress up.
You can tell that I am excited. I will let you know how wonderful it is.
Friday, March 4, 2011
Women are girlfriends you have not met yet!!
I have been in Kansas City this week. I am spending time with a young
friend I have known for 14 years. She is married to a wonderful guy and
she has 3 great kids. Their home is lovely and it is easy to just relax and
be.
I came to speak to some of the moms and mentors at her church. Wow!
What a terrific group of women she has in her life. I would feel very
comfortable coming back and would know several of the girls by simply
spending one week here. It has been such an encouraging time for me.
It is good to get away from our "home" place. It is good to expand our
relationships. It is good to allow other women to appreciate our gifts.
It is good to experience a different Christian community. I will miss
some of the women that I have met.
I spoke to the mentor moms about how important their life is to
younger women. By their life experience and their walk through
difficulties of life, they give younger women hope. They love these
young moms. What a blessing to have a vision for training and
teaching young women what life is about.
I spoke to the moms about how important prayer is to their daily
life. We talked about the peace it brings, the restoration that we
can experience, the attitude adjustment prayer brings and
finally that God wants us to say YES to His plan for us. What
beautiful babies and toddlers I saw. This group was so open
and anxious for God's help in their lives.
Tonight I will be teaching them about closet organizing and
wardrobe. It will be so much fun. I just love helping women
in this way. What a joy to be able to use the gift that God has
given me for the benefit of women.
God is good all of the time.
friend I have known for 14 years. She is married to a wonderful guy and
she has 3 great kids. Their home is lovely and it is easy to just relax and
be.
I came to speak to some of the moms and mentors at her church. Wow!
What a terrific group of women she has in her life. I would feel very
comfortable coming back and would know several of the girls by simply
spending one week here. It has been such an encouraging time for me.
It is good to get away from our "home" place. It is good to expand our
relationships. It is good to allow other women to appreciate our gifts.
It is good to experience a different Christian community. I will miss
some of the women that I have met.
I spoke to the mentor moms about how important their life is to
younger women. By their life experience and their walk through
difficulties of life, they give younger women hope. They love these
young moms. What a blessing to have a vision for training and
teaching young women what life is about.
I spoke to the moms about how important prayer is to their daily
life. We talked about the peace it brings, the restoration that we
can experience, the attitude adjustment prayer brings and
finally that God wants us to say YES to His plan for us. What
beautiful babies and toddlers I saw. This group was so open
and anxious for God's help in their lives.
Tonight I will be teaching them about closet organizing and
wardrobe. It will be so much fun. I just love helping women
in this way. What a joy to be able to use the gift that God has
given me for the benefit of women.
God is good all of the time.
Friday, February 25, 2011
You are not alone
I think that sometimes we feel as though we are all alone. For those of
us who know in our head that God is always with us, it is more difficult.
Being human, we need other human beings to be a part of our lives.
If we do not reach out to people when we need them, we begin to feel
isolated. Then, our mind starts working over time to convince us that
nobody cares for us. I have been there. It is not a fun place to reside.
Who is at fault? Who can I blame? How can I move from this place?
I write journals. I have always been a writer. It helps me to think more
clearly. Oh yes, I write exactly what I am feeling but it gets it out of my
head so it does not fester there. I tell God all about it. He already knows
me and knows exactly what I am feeling.
Sometimes we just don't give ourselves a break. A break from working.
A break from being "better". A break from people who are difficult.
A break from "out there".
If you are feeling like this, here are some tips. Listen to soothing music
and close your eyes. Allow the relaxation to cover you and don't fight
it. Look at fun magazines on home decor, flowers, fashion, travel, etc.
Drink a cup of flavored tea in a pretty china cup...if you don't have one
you need to buy one!! Go for a walk and notice the beauty of nature
which God created just for you.
After this, do something daring. New haircut, new color, new makeup,
a new pair of jeans, a new cell phone cover (mine is so cute). Go to places
you have not gone before. Talk to someone at the mall that you have
never met.
You are not alone and neither am I. There are people who care about
us even when we don't feel like they do. Get out there and take care
of yourself, girlfriend.
us who know in our head that God is always with us, it is more difficult.
Being human, we need other human beings to be a part of our lives.
If we do not reach out to people when we need them, we begin to feel
isolated. Then, our mind starts working over time to convince us that
nobody cares for us. I have been there. It is not a fun place to reside.
Who is at fault? Who can I blame? How can I move from this place?
I write journals. I have always been a writer. It helps me to think more
clearly. Oh yes, I write exactly what I am feeling but it gets it out of my
head so it does not fester there. I tell God all about it. He already knows
me and knows exactly what I am feeling.
Sometimes we just don't give ourselves a break. A break from working.
A break from being "better". A break from people who are difficult.
A break from "out there".
If you are feeling like this, here are some tips. Listen to soothing music
and close your eyes. Allow the relaxation to cover you and don't fight
it. Look at fun magazines on home decor, flowers, fashion, travel, etc.
Drink a cup of flavored tea in a pretty china cup...if you don't have one
you need to buy one!! Go for a walk and notice the beauty of nature
which God created just for you.
After this, do something daring. New haircut, new color, new makeup,
a new pair of jeans, a new cell phone cover (mine is so cute). Go to places
you have not gone before. Talk to someone at the mall that you have
never met.
You are not alone and neither am I. There are people who care about
us even when we don't feel like they do. Get out there and take care
of yourself, girlfriend.
Tuesday, February 22, 2011
A Few Things I have learned along the way.
Women Need Girlfriends!!This is so important. Only women can understand one another.
I know that our husbands are our best friends but they werenot created to be emotional beings. We need sisters who can
really feel our joy and sorrow.
We carry burdens that only another woman can understand.
When we have trauma in our family, a woman understands.
When someone that we trusted betrays us, a woman under
stands. When we say or do something we wished we had not,
a woman understands. When we are ready to crumble, a woman
will give us a hug.
A woman can rejoice with us when we are celebrating something
foolish...I did not eat chocolate cake today!! Women can talk
and laugh about nothing important. A woman has an open,
caring heart for the feelings of others.
When girlfriends get together they all benefit. We never know
how our sharing can encourage someone else. My sister loves
it when I share my flaws. It gives her pleasure and so I just
keep making mistakes!!! Girlfriends are people that love us and
we can just relax in their presence. Girlfriends are REAL.
Girlfriends come in all shapes, sizes and ethnicities. We are
drawn to other women as if there is a magnet in each of our
hearts. God uses women to come alongside and be of help.
I know that all women do not have the blessing of girlfriends
but maybe you can start looking for a few girls to try out.
I love spending time with my husband but I need girlfriends.
Saturday, February 19, 2011
A Few Things I have learned along the way
Women Need Girlfriends.
I hope that every woman reading this is aware that we need one another.
My husband is my best friend but he does not think like a woman and I
am happy about that!! He would not want to devote time to talk about
"NOTHING". He cannot understand how feely I am about things. He
does not jump up and down with me when I am excited.
Now that we have established that women need women, let us get down
to it. God has given us opportunities to be a part of another woman's life.
He has given certain people to us for a season. He knows what we need and
what we go through. God loves us and knows our weakness. He approves
of girlfriends.
Please do not tell me that you do not have time for girlfriends. You need
them. You cannot be all that you should be without time out with friends.
If you are a planner in your purse person, schedule time to be wih your
girlfriends. Just get together and laugh.
I hope that every woman reading this is aware that we need one another.
My husband is my best friend but he does not think like a woman and I
am happy about that!! He would not want to devote time to talk about
"NOTHING". He cannot understand how feely I am about things. He
does not jump up and down with me when I am excited.
Now that we have established that women need women, let us get down
to it. God has given us opportunities to be a part of another woman's life.
He has given certain people to us for a season. He knows what we need and
what we go through. God loves us and knows our weakness. He approves
of girlfriends.
Please do not tell me that you do not have time for girlfriends. You need
them. You cannot be all that you should be without time out with friends.
If you are a planner in your purse person, schedule time to be wih your
girlfriends. Just get together and laugh.
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Helpful Hints
Today I was with some friends and we were just talking about many things. I was sharing some ways to keep focused on the right thinking. They laughed and suggested it was something to add to my blog.
Women have a hard time remaining calm. Life throws things at you constantly and when you start feeling yourself getting upset...CD Calm Down. Put your hand on your forearm and say "Calm Down, your name". It really helps. A few
deep breaths will also be helpful.
When you encounter people in and out of your home that "bug" you, try this.
NE...No expectations. Our problem is that we expect things of everyone. Stop it. You cannot control anyone but yourself. Relax and accept people for who
they are with NE. This really helps with husbands and children.
For everything else that crowds into your life and tries to take your joy away
LIG...Let It Go. Just picture it floating up to God the only One who can change
anyone or anything. You can sing this to the tune of "Let is snow" using,
Let it go.
Life is not complicated, you just have to figure out how to continue being you
in the midst of people and circumstances. I hope this helps.
Women have a hard time remaining calm. Life throws things at you constantly and when you start feeling yourself getting upset...CD Calm Down. Put your hand on your forearm and say "Calm Down, your name". It really helps. A few
deep breaths will also be helpful.
When you encounter people in and out of your home that "bug" you, try this.
NE...No expectations. Our problem is that we expect things of everyone. Stop it. You cannot control anyone but yourself. Relax and accept people for who
they are with NE. This really helps with husbands and children.
For everything else that crowds into your life and tries to take your joy away
LIG...Let It Go. Just picture it floating up to God the only One who can change
anyone or anything. You can sing this to the tune of "Let is snow" using,
Let it go.
Life is not complicated, you just have to figure out how to continue being you
in the midst of people and circumstances. I hope this helps.
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
A Few Things I have learned along the way.
Nothing is too big or too small for God to care about.
How wonderful to know that God knows me and loves me
just as I am. As I grow older I have come to realize that
God takes care of me moment by moment. It is not just
about the big issues such as health but also the little
things like losing everything!!!
When God created us He knew that we would have so
many issues and He is always there to help. I always
appreciate His help with:- losing car keys
- losing money
- losing one earring
- forgetting what I went to the store to get
- losing assorted articles of clothing
I don't think that I am the only woman who faces these
times of inadequacy. God gently reminds me that whenI am losing my mind, He is there to do the repair without
shaking His head and rolling His eyes. Thank you, Lord.
I am so comforted by verses that talk about God using
the weaker things. Yes, I am weak and I love the way
He is the only strength that I need. I depend on my
Heavenly Father moment by moment through the day.
I am not fearful because He is always beside me.
I lost a beautiful black and white rhinestone earring
one year ago. Yes, God knew it was hiding under my bed
and allowed me to bend down for another reason so that
I would see it. He knows that I love to sparkle!!
Friday, February 11, 2011
A Few Things I have learned along the way.
Children are in our homes for a very short time, have fun
with them.
This is a picture of five of my six grandchildren. They are
such a joy and blessing in my life. They say and do funny
things all of the time. I could already write several books
on their view of life. They bring so much laughter to the
home. When I look at them, I am reminded of my children
and some of the fun we had in our home.
There is so much work to being a good parent. Life
can become a series of what has to be done. Yes, there
are lessons that must be learned but children need to
have fun at home. Home is the safe place where a child
knows they are loved NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS in
the outside world.
If life gets dull, have a nothing party!! You know what
your children enjoy so let them have it and make it a
surprise. Have their friends over and give them treats
that children like to eat. Make your home the base camp
for your child's friends.
We have already realized that four of our grandchildren
are not available because they are in school now. That
time when they were toddlers flew by. Their mommies
and daddies cannot just take them out of school to go
to the park or get an ice cream.
Make each day a good memory by planning something
fun with your child or grandchild. Remember Valentines
Day is Monday.
Monday, February 7, 2011
A Few Things I have learned along the way
Each day is a gift so don't take one day for granted.
How many friends do we have who have lost their
partner or a family member? Time is something that
we all share. We have choices as to the spending of
this time. I never want the word "regret" used when
thinking about friends and loved ones that have been
a part of my life.
I refuse to waste the precious moments of one day
worrying about things that are not relevant to my
walk with the Lord. God knows all about the economy,
my health, the health of loved ones, my living
conditions, the weather, the unrest in the world,
our government, etc.
If we knew we had this one day to live, how different
would our thinking and doing be. I know that there
would be many phone calls that I would make so that
people knew how much they meant to me. People who
live nearby would get one last hug of appreciation for
what they contributed to my life. I would clear much
of my bank account and give it to the places that God is
using for His glory. I would spend time thinking about
the goodness of God over the many years He has given.
I would speak to each of my children and grandchildren
to know how much I love them. My husband and I
would recall our lives together.
We only have today. No matter what our age, this could
be our last day. I want to use my day to appreciate the
Lord and all that He gives me each day. No worrying!!
How many friends do we have who have lost their
partner or a family member? Time is something that
we all share. We have choices as to the spending of
this time. I never want the word "regret" used when
thinking about friends and loved ones that have been
a part of my life.
I refuse to waste the precious moments of one day
worrying about things that are not relevant to my
walk with the Lord. God knows all about the economy,
my health, the health of loved ones, my living
conditions, the weather, the unrest in the world,
our government, etc.
If we knew we had this one day to live, how different
would our thinking and doing be. I know that there
would be many phone calls that I would make so that
people knew how much they meant to me. People who
live nearby would get one last hug of appreciation for
what they contributed to my life. I would clear much
of my bank account and give it to the places that God is
using for His glory. I would spend time thinking about
the goodness of God over the many years He has given.
I would speak to each of my children and grandchildren
to know how much I love them. My husband and I
would recall our lives together.
We only have today. No matter what our age, this could
be our last day. I want to use my day to appreciate the
Lord and all that He gives me each day. No worrying!!
Wednesday, February 2, 2011
A Few Things I have learned along the way.
Women have a hard time focusing on themselves. A woman sees herself as someone who cares for family, a husband, children, friends, work associates, etc. When life is filled with demands to "fix" everyone and everything, a woman gets weary. Because I am now in my 60s, I know that most of the stuff that we blame ourselves for had a purpose that we cannot fully understand until eternity.
There are some general principles that have helped me to live a life of appreciation.
1. Forgive people so that you do not become a bitter person.
A lack of forgiveness does not hurt the person you will not forgive, it
hurts you. You are the one wasting time thinking about something
that someone did or said to you. Your mind can make a very small
thing into a mountain if we do not let go of it.
I know people who have completely changed their personality
because of their lack of forgiveness.
I am not perfect and neither is any person on earth. We say and do
things that others have to forgive us for. It is just practical to keep
your heart and mind cleaned out so it does not become a stagnant
place of bitterness.
2. Joy comes from inside not the material things that life has to offer.
How life has changed since the economy has dipped. People have
lost quite a bit of the "stuff" they thought made them happy. There
has been a renewal of family life and memory making times that do
not include Disneyland!
Time is so much more valuable to people than gifts, no matter how
large. Is life really about having more things than other people?
What a sad way to view life.
When I think about all the blessings in one day, I am overwhelmed
with joy.
We have healthy, happy children and grandchildren. I live in a place
that is perfectly suited to our needs. I have girlfriends who laugh
with me about nothing! I have people who pray for me.
We all have a list of things that have nothing to do with material
things that give us joy. Money cannot buy happiness just a lot of
junk.
To be continued
There are some general principles that have helped me to live a life of appreciation.
1. Forgive people so that you do not become a bitter person.
A lack of forgiveness does not hurt the person you will not forgive, it
hurts you. You are the one wasting time thinking about something
that someone did or said to you. Your mind can make a very small
thing into a mountain if we do not let go of it.
I know people who have completely changed their personality
because of their lack of forgiveness.
I am not perfect and neither is any person on earth. We say and do
things that others have to forgive us for. It is just practical to keep
your heart and mind cleaned out so it does not become a stagnant
place of bitterness.
2. Joy comes from inside not the material things that life has to offer.
How life has changed since the economy has dipped. People have
lost quite a bit of the "stuff" they thought made them happy. There
has been a renewal of family life and memory making times that do
not include Disneyland!
Time is so much more valuable to people than gifts, no matter how
large. Is life really about having more things than other people?
What a sad way to view life.
When I think about all the blessings in one day, I am overwhelmed
with joy.
We have healthy, happy children and grandchildren. I live in a place
that is perfectly suited to our needs. I have girlfriends who laugh
with me about nothing! I have people who pray for me.
We all have a list of things that have nothing to do with material
things that give us joy. Money cannot buy happiness just a lot of
junk.
To be continued
Sunday, January 30, 2011
A New Day
It is a beautiful day in Arizona. It is wonderful to realize that it is January 30 and we are enjoying
spring weather. I love the sunshine. It is a gift to encourage us to remember our Creator.
When I wake up each new day, I begin by opening the blinds that cover our pation window. What
an awe inspiring view we have. I enjoy a cup of flavored coffee while lounging on my couch. I see
water and gently swaying trees. At this time of year there are many types of geese and birds you
would expect to see in a National Geographic article. Because of our weather, we are already enjoying flowering plants and trees. Our condo community has walkways surrounding several manmade lakes. It is a lovely mile long walk and encourages exercise year round.
I usually have a busy schedule with people that God has brought into my life. On Sundays, my husband and I enjoy relaxing in ouar home. Women need times of rest so we can be ready for what
will come in the next moment. It is fun to appreciate your own decor, foods, music and the company of someone you care about.
Yesterday was a full day for me. I enjoyed being with people and serving but then I needed to rest.
God gives us rest and never overloads us with too much to do. I think sometimes women consider every duty to be from God. He knows what we can handle and carres the load for us.
I hope each day is a wonderful surprise for you.
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